Dear Black Gay Men Podcast

Jai The Gentleman

dearblackgaymen@substack.com

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Booking Overview

A Black queer-focused podcast that mixes identity, accountability, and cultural critique through personal and creator-driven storytelling. It’s a strong fit for guests who can speak candidly about being Black and queer, consent/relationships ethics, and navigating community expectations.

Metrics

Episodes: 134

Frequency: Multiple_weekly

Rating: 4.9/5.0

Estimated listeners: 1k-10k

Gender skew: Male

Location: USA

YouTube: 17.2k subscribers

Contact Information

dearblackgaymen@substack.com

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Host

Jai The Gentleman - Host and creator of the Dear Black Gay Men Podcast. Known for centering Black queer experiences, discussing identity on one’s own terms, and using cultural accountability as a core throughline for ...

Booking Intelligence

Booking Requirements

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Typical Credentials:  
Predominantly independent creators and public-facing voices within Black queer culture (YouTube/online creators and adult creators when the topic is relationships/ethics). Guests should be able to speak thoughtfully to identity, community norms, and relationship dynamics.
Required Achievements:  
Notable online presence (viral moments, consistent content creation), Published/produced creator work in LGBTQ/queer-adjacent spaces, Community recognition for perspectives on identity and culture

Recent Guest Discussions

Florida Man Jayy - Navigating Black Queer Culture And Identity; Trans Attraction; Bisexuality/labeling; Therapy And Experimentation; Stereotypes And Community Pressures

Grayling Purnell - Alleged Relationship/ownership Dynamics Involving Tattoos; Consent And Predation Concerns; Colorism And Racial Targeting Themes

Recent Topics

Black Queer, Relationships, Consent, Transgender, Bisexuality

Episodes

Here's the recent few episodes on
Dear Black Gay Men Podcast
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Why Kevin Hart’s George Floyd Roast Defense Misses the Mark Entirely

May 28, 2026

What up, though? It’s Wednesday, and we are stepping out of our comfort zone on the Dear Black Gay Men Podcast to talk about a massive conversation taking over Black culture right now.If you’ve been anywhere on the internet lately, you know that Kevin Hart recently produced and hosted his own Netflix roast. While roasts are notorious for crossing the line, comedian Tony Hinchcliffe dropped a highly controversial joke about George Floyd that left a bad taste in everyone’s mouth.But the real is...

True to Yourself: FloridaManJayy Explores Identity, Trans Attraction, and Black Queer Culture

May 21, 2026

What does it mean to navigate Black queer culture on your own terms? In the latest episode of the Dear Black Gay Men Podcast, host Jai The Gentleman sits down with YouTube content creator Florida Man Jayy for a raw, b******t-free conversation that challenges the boundaries of traditional labels.From discussing his viral storytime “My First Trans Encounter” to opening up about his journey with therapy and healthy experimentation, Florida Man J brings a level of unfiltered self-awareness that i...

Surviving Grayling Purnell: When “Love” Becomes Ownership

May 19, 2026

We are talking about adult content creator Grayling Purnell. He’s sparked intense backlash for a disturbing pattern: his young boyfriends keep getting his name permanently tattooed on their bodies—specifically their faces—allegedly within days of meeting him.Is It a Kink or Predatory Behavior?During the episode, Jai reacted to a video by creator JEiiNCLUSIVE, breaking down the red flags. In one clip, a boyfriend appeared visibly out of it and inebriated, allegedly, while showing off fresh ink...

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