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Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer

Nicole Byer

Booking Overview

An interview-led comedy and relationships show focused on dating, breakups, sexuality, and candid personal stories, typically featuring comedians, entertainers, creators, drag performers, and occasional experts. Suitable pitches include recognizable personalities with compelling relationship experiences or credible expertise in dating, sexuality, mental health, or modern relationships; booking difficulty is medium because guests generally have established public profiles but are not limited to top-tier celebrities.

Metrics

Episodes: 471

Frequency: Weekly

Rating: 4.9/5.0

Estimated listeners: 100,000 - 1M

Gender skew: Female

Listener location: USA

YouTube: 69.2k subscribers

Instagram: 903.0k followers

Contact Information

Publicly listed emails

whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com

support@headgum.com

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Host

Nicole Byer - Comedian, actress, writer, and podcaster known for her television, film, stand-up, and comedy work, including hosting Nailed It!

Booking Intelligence

Booking Requirements

medium
Typical Credentials:  
Established comedians, actors, drag performers, online creators, podcasters, or other public personalities with distinctive relationship experiences; dating, sexuality, mental-health, or relationship experts may also fit when they can discuss these subjects accessibly and candidly.
Required Achievements:  
Television, film, or comedy credits, Recognizable digital or podcast platforms, Drag competition or touring performance experience, Published books or notable creative projects

Recent Guest Discussions

BenDeLaCreme - Separation And Staying Friends With An Ex, Dating In Midlife, Dating-app Experiences, And Relationship Boundaries.

Big Dipper - Maintaining Friendships And Relationships, Chaotic Personal Experiences, And The Challenges Of Sustaining Close Bonds.

Jarvis Johnson - Artificial Intelligence And Dating, Public Relationships, Internet Breakups, Privacy, Neurodivergence, ADHD, And Relationships.

Onya Nurve - Catfishing, Dating-app Safety, Sexuality, Relationships, Navigating Social Dynamics, And Dating Boundaries.

Kim Newmoney - Nontraditional Dating Arrangements, Ending A Long-term Relationship, Dating-profile Photography, Confidence, And Body Image.

Recent Topics

Relationships, Dating, Sexuality, Breakups, Online Dating

Episodes

Here's the recent few episodes on
Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer
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I Wanna Be a Slut (w/ Lisa Hanawalt)

October 16, 2026

Illustrator and friend Lisa Hanawalt (Bojack Horseman, Tuca & Bertie) returns to the podcast to chat about starting fresh in the dating scene after a 15-year relationship with Adam Conover, and what happened when they tried opening things up before they parted ways. Lisa explains wanting to be a slut while still needing to feel safe, her dates with a pathological liar who claimed he’d survived three train crashes, and what it’s like explaining PMDD mood swings to a new partner.Next week, ...

Are YOU The Problem? (w/ Darlene Mitchell)

October 09, 2026

Drag queen Darlene Mitchell (Drag Race S18) joins Nicole for a chat about finding love in the Instagram DMs, pulling off a tear-jerking surprise proposal, and coming out to her conservative family via a massive group text right before leaving to film reality TV. Darlene spills on a disastrous first date with an aspiring news anchor who was stuck in his persona, and dumping a college crush after finding out he was making out with someone ugly. Plus, they discuss why weaponized therapy speak on...

Grilling Nicole's Man (w/ Ms. Pat)

October 02, 2026

Comedian Ms. Pat joins Nicole to reveal the true secret to surviving a 33-year marriage, shares the brutal realities of menopause nobody talks about, and interrogates Nicole and the nice man in her life about why they aren't married yet. Plus, they dive into why a casual courthouse wedding beats a pricey party, the difference between taking care of people and being taken advantage of, and learning to finally advocate for yourself in relationships.Check out Ms. Pat's new book, MS. AMERICAN DRE...

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Frequently asked questions

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Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer
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How do I get in touch with Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer?

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer is hosted by Nicole Byer. Its publicly listed emails are whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com and support@headgum.com. For guest bookings, the host or producer is usually the best person to reach. Podseeker helps you find direct host and producer contacts and pitch from your own inbox.

What is the email for Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer?

The publicly listed emails for Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer: whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com and support@headgum.com.

How many listeners does Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer have?

Podseeker estimates Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer reaches 100,000 to 1 million listeners per episode. Only the publisher has exact numbers.

Who is an ideal guest for Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer?

Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer typically books rising experts. Typical guest background: Established comedians, actors, drag performers, online creators, podcasters, or other public personalities with distinctive relationship experiences; dating, sexuality, mental-health, or relationship experts may also fit when they can discuss these subjects accessibly and candidly. Common among recent guests: Television, film, or comedy credits; Recognizable digital or podcast platforms; Drag competition or touring performance experience. Recent guests include BenDeLaCreme, Big Dipper, and Jarvis Johnson.

How hard is it to get booked on Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer?

Medium. Guests usually need solid credentials in the topic and an idea that fits the show.

What topics does Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer cover?

Recent episodes cover Relationships, Dating, Sexuality, Breakups, and Online Dating. Pitch an idea tied to one of these topics and mention a recent episode.

Publicly listed emails

whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com

support@headgum.com

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