Episodes: 471
Frequency: Weekly
Rating: 4.9/5.0
Estimated listeners: 100,000 - 1M
Gender skew: Female
Listener location: USA
YouTube: 69.2k subscribers
Instagram: 903.0k followers
Publicly listed emails
whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com
support@headgum.com
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Nicole Byer - Comedian, actress, writer, and podcaster known for her television, film, stand-up, and comedy work, including hosting Nailed It!
BenDeLaCreme - Separation And Staying Friends With An Ex, Dating In Midlife, Dating-app Experiences, And Relationship Boundaries.
Big Dipper - Maintaining Friendships And Relationships, Chaotic Personal Experiences, And The Challenges Of Sustaining Close Bonds.
Jarvis Johnson - Artificial Intelligence And Dating, Public Relationships, Internet Breakups, Privacy, Neurodivergence, ADHD, And Relationships.
Onya Nurve - Catfishing, Dating-app Safety, Sexuality, Relationships, Navigating Social Dynamics, And Dating Boundaries.
Kim Newmoney - Nontraditional Dating Arrangements, Ending A Long-term Relationship, Dating-profile Photography, Confidence, And Body Image.
I Wanna Be a Slut (w/ Lisa Hanawalt)
October 16, 2026
Illustrator and friend Lisa Hanawalt (Bojack Horseman, Tuca & Bertie) returns to the podcast to chat about starting fresh in the dating scene after a 15-year relationship with Adam Conover, and what happened when they tried opening things up before they parted ways. Lisa explains wanting to be a slut while still needing to feel safe, her dates with a pathological liar who claimed he’d survived three train crashes, and what it’s like explaining PMDD mood swings to a new partner.Next week, ...
Are YOU The Problem? (w/ Darlene Mitchell)
October 09, 2026
Drag queen Darlene Mitchell (Drag Race S18) joins Nicole for a chat about finding love in the Instagram DMs, pulling off a tear-jerking surprise proposal, and coming out to her conservative family via a massive group text right before leaving to film reality TV. Darlene spills on a disastrous first date with an aspiring news anchor who was stuck in his persona, and dumping a college crush after finding out he was making out with someone ugly. Plus, they discuss why weaponized therapy speak on...
Grilling Nicole's Man (w/ Ms. Pat)
October 02, 2026
Comedian Ms. Pat joins Nicole to reveal the true secret to surviving a 33-year marriage, shares the brutal realities of menopause nobody talks about, and interrogates Nicole and the nice man in her life about why they aren't married yet. Plus, they dive into why a casual courthouse wedding beats a pricey party, the difference between taking care of people and being taken advantage of, and learning to finally advocate for yourself in relationships.Check out Ms. Pat's new book, MS. AMERICAN DRE...
Trash Tuesday w/ Esther Povitsky & Khalyla Kuhn · Medium booking difficulty · 10,000 - 100,000 listeners
Relationsh*t with Kamie Crawford · Medium booking difficulty · 10,000 - 100,000 listeners
Dating Intentionally · Medium booking difficulty · 10,000 - 100,000 listeners
Where's Your Head At? · Low booking difficulty · 10,000 - 100,000 listeners
Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer is hosted by Nicole Byer. Its publicly listed emails are whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com and support@headgum.com. For guest bookings, the host or producer is usually the best person to reach. Podseeker helps you find direct host and producer contacts and pitch from your own inbox.
The publicly listed emails for Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer: whywontyoudatemepodcast@gmail.com and support@headgum.com.
Podseeker estimates Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer reaches 100,000 to 1 million listeners per episode. Only the publisher has exact numbers.
Why Won't You Date Me? with Nicole Byer typically books rising experts. Typical guest background: Established comedians, actors, drag performers, online creators, podcasters, or other public personalities with distinctive relationship experiences; dating, sexuality, mental-health, or relationship experts may also fit when they can discuss these subjects accessibly and candidly. Common among recent guests: Television, film, or comedy credits; Recognizable digital or podcast platforms; Drag competition or touring performance experience. Recent guests include BenDeLaCreme, Big Dipper, and Jarvis Johnson.
Medium. Guests usually need solid credentials in the topic and an idea that fits the show.
Recent episodes cover Relationships, Dating, Sexuality, Breakups, and Online Dating. Pitch an idea tied to one of these topics and mention a recent episode.
Publicly listed emails
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support@headgum.com
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