U Up?

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uup@betches.com

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Can Friendship Breakups Be Fixed in Therapy? ft. Esther Perel

October 16, 2026

Esther Perel is back to join Jordana and Jared to talk about AI girlfriends, if using AI to write a love letter is dishonest, and the real reason we are choosing our phones over in-person connection. J&J and Esther talk about friendship breakups and whether going to therapy with your friend will help. Plus, we get Esther Perel’s take on chores in the home. Does she end up agreeing with J&J’s dating advice?! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

My Mother-in-Law Stalks My Husband’s Ex and Keeps Comparing Me to Her

October 14, 2026

This week, J&J learn that Hinge is banning screenshots, and they question whether this is good for dating or helps cheaters get away with it! They Jordana and Jared see a man who posted his divorce announcement with a thoughtful, brief FAQ and discuss whether all breakups should have posts like these. They then discuss if it’s weird to keep a list of everyone you’ve slept with, whether single friends should be invited to couples nights, and if it’s petty to refuse to treat your ex’s new baby....

My BF Asked His Ex-Wife for Her Engagement Ring Back, What an ICK

October 09, 2026

Jared and Jordana are learning about Instagram’s new blur feature for “soft launching” couples in their new segment, Are U Up to Date? They then answer a listener’s email about asking for an engagement ring back after years of marriage and whether it’s petty or prudent. Lastly, they help an unsure listener who doesn’t want a second big wedding, but her new fiancé, who has never been married, wants a big wedding to celebrate his family’s Chinese wedding traditions. Learn more about your ad cho...

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How do I get in touch with U Up??

U Up? is hosted by Jordana Abraham and Jared Freid. Its publicly listed email is uup@betches.com. For guest bookings, the host or producer is usually the best person to reach. Podseeker helps you find direct host and producer contacts and pitch from your own inbox.

What is the email for U Up??

The publicly listed email for U Up?: uup@betches.com.

How many listeners does U Up? have?

Podseeker estimates U Up? reaches 100,000 to 1 million listeners per episode. Only the publisher has exact numbers.

Who is an ideal guest for U Up??

U Up? typically books rising experts. Typical guest background: Established comedians, actors, entertainers, and other public figures with a relatable personal connection to dating, marriage, or modern relationships. Common among recent guests: Recognizable entertainment career; Television, film, or comedy credits. Recent guests include Lauren Lapkus.

How hard is it to get booked on U Up??

Medium. Guests usually need solid credentials in the topic and an idea that fits the show.

What topics does U Up? cover?

Recent episodes cover Relationships, Dating, Dating Apps, Breakups, and Marriage. Pitch an idea tied to one of these topics and mention a recent episode.