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Not As We Planned

Tash Gershfield, Carly Harris

Booking Overview

A relationship and lifestyle show focused on dating, marriage, divorce, motherhood, and candid personal experiences, with episodes primarily led by the hosts and occasional external guests such as public-facing couples or creators. Credible pitches include relationship experts, divorce and recovery authors, dating or parenting creators, and public figures with compelling firsthand stories; booking difficulty is likely low because the show favors relatable, accessible voices over highly established celebrities.

Metrics

Episodes: 157

Frequency: Weekly

Rating: 4.6/5.0

Estimated listeners: 1,000 - 10,000

Gender skew: Female

Listener location: United Kingdom

YouTube: 6.0k subscribers

Instagram: 53.0k followers

Contact Information

Publicly listed emails

notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.com

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Host

Tash Gershfield - Co-host of a podcast focused on relationships, dating, marriage, divorce, motherhood, and rebuilding life after major relationship changes.

Carly Harris - Co-host of a podcast focused on relationships, dating, marriage, divorce, motherhood, and candid real-life experiences.

Booking Intelligence

Booking Requirements

low
Typical Credentials:  
Public-facing couples, creators, relationship professionals, authors, or other guests with a compelling firsthand or professional perspective on dating, marriage, divorce, parenting, or rebuilding life after relationship change.
Required Achievements:  
Established public or social-media audience, Published work or professional expertise in relationships, dating, divorce, or parenting, Compelling firsthand experience with a widely relatable relationship or family story

Recent Guest Discussions

Charlotte Cucurnia - Young Parenthood, Relationship Communication, Therapy, Marriage, Raising Children, Social-media Pressure, And Maintaining Trust While Sharing Family Life Online.

Connor Kern - Young Parenthood, Relationship Communication, Therapy, Marriage, Raising Children, Social-media Pressure, And Maintaining Trust While Sharing Family Life Online.

Recent Topics

Relationships, Dating, Divorce, Motherhood, Single Parenting

Episodes

Here's the recent few episodes on
Not As We Planned
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We Waited 23 Years To Get Married… He Cheated 3 Months Later

October 14, 2026

Imagine spending 23 years with someone, raising three children together and finally getting married… only to discover he’s been talking to another woman just THREE MONTHS after your wedding. One listener thought she had the perfect life until she discovered weeks of phone calls between her 44-year-old husband and a 24-year-old woman. He insisted he was simply helping her through a breakup, but when she started digging, the truth began to unravel. He’d saved her number under her son’s name, se...

I Found Out My Husband Had A 16-Year-Old Son I Knew NOTHING About

October 07, 2026

Imagine receiving a letter and discovering your husband has a 16-year-old son you knew absolutely nothing about. One listener had spent years believing his version of how a previous relationship ended, only for a child-support letter to reveal the truth. Now she’s trying to process the fact that her husband kept an entire child secret from her, while working out how they eventually tell their own 10 and 8-year-old children that they have an older brother. And the biggest question is: after a ...

I’m The Other Woman… And I’ve Fallen In Love With Him

September 30, 2026

One Bestie has a confession she never thought she’d be making: she’s the other woman. What started with a work colleague who has a long-term partner and two children has turned into a year-long affair, and now they’ve both admitted they have feelings for each other. She knows what they’re doing is wrong and desperately wants to end it, but there’s one major problem: she still has to see him at work. So how do you walk away from someone you’ve fallen for when you can’t completely remove them f...

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Frequently asked questions

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Not As We Planned
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How do I get in touch with Not As We Planned?

Not As We Planned is hosted by Tash Gershfield and Carly Harris. Its publicly listed email is notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.com. For guest bookings, the host or producer is usually the best person to reach. Podseeker helps you find direct host and producer contacts and pitch from your own inbox.

What is the email for Not As We Planned?

The publicly listed email for Not As We Planned: notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.com.

How many listeners does Not As We Planned have?

Podseeker estimates Not As We Planned reaches 1,000 to 10,000 listeners per episode. Only the publisher has exact numbers.

Who is an ideal guest for Not As We Planned?

Not As We Planned typically books working professionals with real expertise. Typical guest background: Public-facing couples, creators, relationship professionals, authors, or other guests with a compelling firsthand or professional perspective on dating, marriage, divorce, parenting, or rebuilding life after relationship change. Common among recent guests: Established public or social-media audience; Published work or professional expertise in relationships, dating, divorce, or parenting; Compelling firsthand experience with a widely relatable relationship or family story. Recent guests include Charlotte Cucurnia and Connor Kern.

How hard is it to get booked on Not As We Planned?

Low. A guest with relevant expertise and a clear angle for its audience has a realistic chance.

What topics does Not As We Planned cover?

Recent episodes cover Relationships, Dating, Divorce, Motherhood, and Single Parenting. Pitch an idea tied to one of these topics and mention a recent episode.

Publicly listed emails

notasweplannedpodcast@gmail.com

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