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The Marriage Questions Everyone's Too Afraid to Ask

August 10, 2026

It's just Erin today, and I've got a lot to say.You sent in your marriage questions and I'm answering all of them — unfiltered, no notes, no Abe to interrupt me. We get into the biggest lesson marriage has actually taught me, how to know when a relationship is worth fighting for versus when to walk away, and whether love is enough. (The answer is complicated.)Also: why I don't think happy couples fight less, why intimacy can't be optional, what it actually means to reconnect after a big argum...

Loud Chewing, Changing Last Names, The Chase (And Other Husband Crimes)

July 27, 2026

We get into the husband habits that need to be addressed (loud chewing is a crime, dental hygiene is private), why Erin didn't change her name for 11 years and what finally made her do it, and the sorority hazing story that has genuinely never come up before. It involves rotten eggs, a basement, and something we're not going to explain further. You'll have to listen.We also revisit the chase — why playing it a little cool still works, why over-texting kills the vibe even when you're married, ...

Dr. Shefali on What's Actually Happening to Our Kids

July 20, 2026

We've been wanting to have Dr. Shefali on for a while, and this conversation did not disappoint. She's a clinical psychologist, bestselling author, and one of the most clear-eyed people we've heard talk about what's actually happening to this generation of kids — and what parents can do about it.We get into the crisis of masculinity and why boys are being pathologized for being boys, the war on girls' authenticity, and why the algorithm is essentially raising our children whether we like it o...