The Unstuck High Performer Podcast

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195. If You Can't Say These 3 Things to Your Wife, Your Marriage (and Business) Are in Trouble

September 21, 2026

You can lead a company, solve million-dollar problems, and make decisions most people are afraid to make—but when your wife asks what's wrong, do you still respond, "I'm fine"? In this episode, I unpack the three statements every high-achieving man needs to become comfortable saying—"I want," "I need," and "I feel"—before years of silence turn his marriage into a relationship between two people who still love each other but no longer know how to reach each other. In this episode, you'll learn...

194. Why Can't I Forgive Myself—Even After All These Years?

September 14, 2026

What if hindsight isn't 20/20—what if it's cruel? In this episode, I challenge the way you've been judging your past self with information, maturity, and emotional capacity you only possess today—and show you how to take responsibility for what happened without continuing to punish yourself for something you can no longer change. In this episode, you'll learn: Why hindsight can become an unfair weapon against your past self The critical differences between regret, guilt, and shame How guilt ...

193. "It's Cheaper to Keep Her"—But What Is Staying Actually Costing Me?

September 07, 2026

What if "it's cheaper to keep her" has far less to do with your marriage—and far more to do with what losing money would mean about you? In this episode, I challenge the relationship between money, self-worth, and legacy—and ask you to stop calculating only what leaving might cost and finally confront what staying exactly as you are may already be costing you. In this episode, you'll learn: What "it's cheaper to keep her" may reveal beneath the financial calculation Why losing wealth can fee...