Episodes: 340
Frequency: Weekly
Rating: 4.8/5.0
Estimated listeners: 10,000 - 100,000
Gender skew: Male
Listener location: USA
Instagram: 135.0k followers
Publicly listed emails
hardorsoftpod@gmail.com
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Tahoe - Host covering sex, relationships, kink, sexual confidence, and pleasure through candid, entertainment-driven conversations.
Courtney - Co-host contributing perspectives on sex, kink, relationships, and sexual pleasure, including a recurring kink-focused segment.
Yessssterday - Co-host contributing to discussions of sex, relationships, sexual confidence, and listener experiences.
Daddy Doyenne - Kink, Trauma, Boundaries, Lgbtqia+ Experiences, Identity, Relationships, And Living Authentically.
Kelly Moonstone - Sexual Pleasure, Sexual Chemistry, Cheating, Attraction, Bedroom Expectations, And Relationships.
When They're Used To Something BIGGER 😳 I Sex, Intimacy and Compatibility
October 01, 2026
Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLL!!!!!This week on Hard or Soft, Tahoe, Courtney and Yesssterday are back — and somehow we go from Tahoe finding out his daughter is sexually active to wondering why MEN don’t have their own version of an OB/GYN. 😭 First, we get into love and vulnerability. Have you ever wanted to say “I love you” but stopped yourself? Even worse…have you ever finally said it and gotten NOTHING back?! We also talk about the little nonsexual things your partner does that inexplicabl...
How To Ride, Survive a Bad Sex Life And Keep The Spark Alive Feat @FantasyFitnessMD
September 23, 2026
Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLL!!!!!This week on Hard or Soft, we’re joined by Toni (@fantasyfitnessmd) of Fantasy Fitness, and somehow we manage to turn relationship advice, sexual chemistry and riding lessons into one completely unhinged conversation. 😂 We start with something every long-term couple eventually has to deal with: How do you keep conflict from destroying the sexual attraction you have for your partner? And what happens when you’re with somebody whose sex drive is MUCH higher than...
BDSM, Kink & Open Relationships- The Rules Nobody Teaches You
September 16, 2026
Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLL!!!!!!!This week on Hard or Soft, we’re joined by Dre for a deep dive into BDSM, kink culture, play parties, relationships and the history behind a community that a lot of people participate in — but may not fully understand. And somehow we start with Dre explaining why he’s out here using BOXING GLOVES to massage booty. 😂 From there, Dre takes us into the world of rope and body suspension, explaining the different levels of suspension, why properly distributing some...
The Curious Girl Diaries · Low booking difficulty · 10,000 - 100,000 listeners
Honeydew Me · Low booking difficulty · 10,000 - 100,000 listeners
The Hard Or Soft Show is hosted by Tahoe and Courtney. Its publicly listed email is hardorsoftpod@gmail.com. For guest bookings, the host or producer is usually the best person to reach. Podseeker helps you find direct host and producer contacts and pitch from your own inbox.
The publicly listed email for The Hard Or Soft Show: hardorsoftpod@gmail.com.
Podseeker estimates The Hard Or Soft Show reaches 10,000 to 100,000 listeners per episode. Only the publisher has exact numbers.
The Hard Or Soft Show typically books working professionals with real expertise. Typical guest background: Sex educators, kink educators and practitioners, relationship or sexual-wellness professionals, sex-positive creators, and public personalities with credible personal or professional experience in sexuality and relationships. Common among recent guests: Professional education or practice in sexuality, kink, relationships, or sexual wellness; Established public presence as a sex-positive creator, performer, artist, or community figure. Recent guests include Daddy Doyenne and Kelly Moonstone.
Low. A guest with relevant expertise and a clear angle for its audience has a realistic chance.
Recent episodes cover Health, Sexual Health, Sex Education, Bdsm, and Open Relationships. Pitch an idea tied to one of these topics and mention a recent episode.
Publicly listed emails
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