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The Hard Or Soft Show

Tahoe, Courtney, Yessssterday

Booking Overview

An adult-sex and relationships interview show focused on sexual confidence, communication, kink, BDSM, nonmonogamy, and pleasure, typically featuring accessible sex-positive creators, educators, lifestyle professionals, and relevant public personalities. PR agencies could credibly pitch sex educators, kink and relationship experts, sexual-wellness professionals, and adult-industry or music personalities with relevant experience; booking difficulty is likely low because guests are generally niche figures rather than major celebrities.

Metrics

Episodes: 340

Frequency: Weekly

Rating: 4.8/5.0

Estimated listeners: 10,000 - 100,000

Gender skew: Male

Listener location: USA

Instagram: 135.0k followers

Contact Information

Publicly listed emails

hardorsoftpod@gmail.com

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Host

Tahoe - Host covering sex, relationships, kink, sexual confidence, and pleasure through candid, entertainment-driven conversations.

Courtney - Co-host contributing perspectives on sex, kink, relationships, and sexual pleasure, including a recurring kink-focused segment.

Yessssterday - Co-host contributing to discussions of sex, relationships, sexual confidence, and listener experiences.

Booking Intelligence

Booking Requirements

low
Typical Credentials:  
Sex educators, kink educators and practitioners, relationship or sexual-wellness professionals, sex-positive creators, and public personalities with credible personal or professional experience in sexuality and relationships.
Required Achievements:  
Professional education or practice in sexuality, kink, relationships, or sexual wellness, Established public presence as a sex-positive creator, performer, artist, or community figure

Recent Guest Discussions

Daddy Doyenne - Kink, Trauma, Boundaries, Lgbtqia+ Experiences, Identity, Relationships, And Living Authentically.

Kelly Moonstone - Sexual Pleasure, Sexual Chemistry, Cheating, Attraction, Bedroom Expectations, And Relationships.

Recent Topics

Health, Sexual Health, Sex Education, Bdsm, Open Relationships

Episodes

Here's the recent few episodes on
The Hard Or Soft Show
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When They're Used To Something BIGGER 😳 I Sex, Intimacy and Compatibility

October 01, 2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLLLLL!!!!!This week on Hard or Soft, Tahoe, Courtney and Yesssterday are back — and somehow we go from Tahoe finding out his daughter is sexually active to wondering why MEN don’t have their own version of an OB/GYN. 😭 First, we get into love and vulnerability. Have you ever wanted to say “I love you” but stopped yourself? Even worse…have you ever finally said it and gotten NOTHING back?! We also talk about the little nonsexual things your partner does that inexplicabl...

How To Ride, Survive a Bad Sex Life And Keep The Spark Alive Feat @FantasyFitnessMD

September 23, 2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLLL CAAALLLLLL!!!!!This week on Hard or Soft, we’re joined by Toni (@fantasyfitnessmd) of Fantasy Fitness, and somehow we manage to turn relationship advice, sexual chemistry and riding lessons into one completely unhinged conversation. 😂 We start with something every long-term couple eventually has to deal with: How do you keep conflict from destroying the sexual attraction you have for your partner? And what happens when you’re with somebody whose sex drive is MUCH higher than...

BDSM, Kink & Open Relationships- The Rules Nobody Teaches You

September 16, 2026

Nut Navy ROLLLLL CAAALLLLL!!!!!!!This week on Hard or Soft, we’re joined by Dre for a deep dive into BDSM, kink culture, play parties, relationships and the history behind a community that a lot of people participate in — but may not fully understand. And somehow we start with Dre explaining why he’s out here using BOXING GLOVES to massage booty. 😂 From there, Dre takes us into the world of rope and body suspension, explaining the different levels of suspension, why properly distributing some...

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Frequently asked questions

Here's some frequently asked questions for
The Hard Or Soft Show
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How do I get in touch with The Hard Or Soft Show?

The Hard Or Soft Show is hosted by Tahoe and Courtney. Its publicly listed email is hardorsoftpod@gmail.com. For guest bookings, the host or producer is usually the best person to reach. Podseeker helps you find direct host and producer contacts and pitch from your own inbox.

What is the email for The Hard Or Soft Show?

The publicly listed email for The Hard Or Soft Show: hardorsoftpod@gmail.com.

How many listeners does The Hard Or Soft Show have?

Podseeker estimates The Hard Or Soft Show reaches 10,000 to 100,000 listeners per episode. Only the publisher has exact numbers.

Who is an ideal guest for The Hard Or Soft Show?

The Hard Or Soft Show typically books working professionals with real expertise. Typical guest background: Sex educators, kink educators and practitioners, relationship or sexual-wellness professionals, sex-positive creators, and public personalities with credible personal or professional experience in sexuality and relationships. Common among recent guests: Professional education or practice in sexuality, kink, relationships, or sexual wellness; Established public presence as a sex-positive creator, performer, artist, or community figure. Recent guests include Daddy Doyenne and Kelly Moonstone.

How hard is it to get booked on The Hard Or Soft Show?

Low. A guest with relevant expertise and a clear angle for its audience has a realistic chance.

What topics does The Hard Or Soft Show cover?

Recent episodes cover Health, Sexual Health, Sex Education, Bdsm, and Open Relationships. Pitch an idea tied to one of these topics and mention a recent episode.

Publicly listed emails

hardorsoftpod@gmail.com

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